How do I show my love?
This is a very good question because when we fall in love, there is no rehearsal and although our hearts are telling us that we’re in love, very often we don’t know how to show our love.
The best way to handle this is to follow your heart. You will know when the time has come to not hold back; you will want to show your love. When you find yourself thinking about this person constantly, when you naturally want to do things for him or her, you’re ready to show your love.
Here are a few ways to show your love:
Steps
Step 1: The talking
Use terms of endearment: My darling, my sweet darling, sweetheart… Tell him how sweet he is, everyday. Use kind words.
Thank him for all the things he does for you. Show him you appreciate his help.
If you find it hard to communicate with words, write to him. Send him emails or write letters telling him how he makes you feel, write poems, download love songs and send him your favorite ones. I sent my darling Magnet and Steel by Walter Egan. Sometime, a song can speak for you.
Call him on the phone regularly. Make a habit of not missing a day.
Tell him the things you love about him: I love to kiss you; I love your mouth, etc.
When you hold him and you’re in the moment, let him know how you feel. Love can make you feel high, let him know what’s going on in your heart, try to describe that feeling.
Listen to what he says, be there for him, and ask questions.
Step 2: The doing
HUG HIM, cuddle, hold hands. Touching is heaven. It brings you closer.
Make a keepsake for him, a bracelet, a picture, a painting.
KISS HIM, sometimes softly, sometimes with passion, just do it.
Give him lots of attention.
Let him know constantly that you care for him; you’re his brick house.
Get him something he likes, it shows you’re thinking about him: his favorite snack or drink.
Do things together, go for walks by the river, get a blanket and lie in the park under the shade of a tree. Romantic things are free. Just enjoy his company and let him know how much you enjoy spending time with him.
Do things for him to make his life easier, do his dishes, water his plants, get his coffee ready…
Give him a massage.
In the end, be there for him, that’s all that matters.
Now get to work. It takes practice so don’t be shy; what you will get back from giving is priceless and will make you happy.
Tips and Tactics
TIP: Praise him, talk about his qualities: You are such a good cook, you are so kind, you are so easy to be with, you make me so happy, etc.
TIP: Look into his eyes; tell him how you love the color of his eyes.
TIP: He makes you happy so show it, smile at him.
TIP: If he works with his hands, give him a hand massage.
Links to Resources
http://www.wikihow.com/Show-Your-Wife-or-Husband-That-You-Truly-Love-Them
